tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15989428805288592572024-02-08T08:30:27.644-06:00socialworker musingSocialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.comBlogger139125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-89229752723577197192013-10-09T12:14:00.000-05:002013-10-09T12:14:01.418-05:00What now?The past couple of weeks have been a fast slide into despair and a hard slog to get out of it. Feeling abandoned and isolated in some of my previously "safe places." The angry outburst from my cousin, the request from Meg that I not attend her 40th birthday party, the announcement from church that the search did not find a rector, and the realization that it was the 3rd anniversary of Fred's death, and that his part of my life was truly gone. I feel very vulnerable, and that no one "has my back." Dear as Spencer is, he can not fill that void. I also feel that I have no sense of purpose. Why am I here? What now? Some glimmers of light come through but no answers yet . . .Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-45727347095647118832013-03-18T21:49:00.001-05:002013-03-18T21:49:43.162-05:00
This has been a long period of mostly being alone. My friend Sherri decided she needed to have a week alone so I missed my 5 day a week coffee buddy. My beloved companion had
a Diocesan meeting this weekend and made no attempt to see me when he returned. So it will be two weeks since I have seen him. Then today he is quite ill and stayed home from work and slept. I am leaving it up to him as to when he will come here for the weekend. He keeps saying how much he loves me but his actions sometimes don't match his words. I have to keep reminding myself that we are companions not a married couple. I do not want to remarry, but I do like to have his company more regularly.
This has been a very difficult 6 months, with the small stroke I had in September, then taking so very many falls, finally getting a diagnosis, vertebral artery stenosis, that predicts more strokes, either from risky surgery or just "kicking the can down the road." It is possible that I may not have as many years ahead of me as I had hoped. I am stronger than when it started but I am still taking some falls. I am being more careful and using my cane much more. This may be a condition that I will have to just live with. I am not morbid about it but I realize that I need to get some papers together for the kids. Lord, I would like to be healthy enough to see the grandchildren grown up.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-20353906202156831422012-05-12T19:58:00.002-05:002012-05-12T19:58:44.996-05:00CelebrationI get to spend this Mother's Day with both of my children and their kids! What fun! Little Sam has really picked up so many new words that I can really communicate with him!
Things with my Beloved Companion continue to deepen. Last of this month will be the anniversary of our first date, something neither of us expected at all! God has been so very generous to us.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-39516868642602061632011-07-19T20:20:00.002-05:002011-07-19T20:31:25.183-05:00Down in AustinI drove to Austin today to be with Lawyer Girl and the Baby Nematode while Scientist Guy is out of the country educating the heathen masses on the treasures to be found in itty, bitty viruses (virusi?) The little Nematode is crawling almost as fast as I can run, pulling up to a stand, and doing all appropriate age-related activities. He still has the charming personality where he gets a big grin on his face when I walk in, even though he has not seen me for several months.<br /><br />Spent a week at Stephen Leader Training, where I picked up a strep bug but put it quickly on the run. I am seeing much more of my soulfriend which continues to amaze and delight me. Life proceeds apace.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-15733151616062671862011-07-06T10:17:00.005-05:002011-07-06T10:51:54.827-05:00New Life!I have not written on this blog for many months. I went through quite a slump in the winter months where I could see clearly what I had lost, but had no inkling what God would send in its place. Sort of a "dark nights of the soul" period where I felt like huddling up with my dogs around the fireplace, cuddling up on my sofa. Thank heavens for good friends like Sharon, Freda Marie, and Ann and others who listened to my heartache and assured me that God did have a plan for me but I needed to be patient and let it unfold. My children and my brothers kept checking on me, thank goodness. And the grandbabies kept demanding that Life continue on.<br /><br />Light did return to the world along with the early and constant heat of this blistering Texas summer. I have some new interests which are coming to fruition, and I feel younger and stronger than before. I lived with Fred's illness plus his impending and actual death for a long time. I cannot and do not regret one minute or one dollar spent on our time together; it was so rich and wonderful to be with him and all I can do is to thank God for letting me have Fred in my life. I would wish him back in a heartbeat if I could have my healthy, sweet husband back with me. But God took him home because his dear body could no longer bow to his will any more. <br /><br />I am blessed with a new soulfriend in my life, and with other new friends and activities. Thank you, God for remaining with me, even when I could neither hear nor see You for a while. I am ALIVE and WELL!Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-39011118168918947832010-11-12T10:22:00.002-06:002010-11-12T10:30:38.749-06:00It's November!It seems like today is our one day of Fall in Texas. Some of the leaves have changed colors but this fall our temps have been too high to get maximum color out of the leaves. Oh well, maybe next year.<br /><br />Overall, I am still doing very well. I keep almost too busy but my friends and family have been fabulous at keeping in touch. This lifts my spirits tremendously. Honestly, my primary emotion has been one of gratitude for the many gifts from Fred and God, my home, my family, my job, my friends, and the overpowering sense that I am truly loved. I am a bit wary of the upcoming holidays as I do not want to get maudlin and depressed. Somehow, I don't think that the grandchildren will let me! And we have the new baby to look forward to in January...a granddaughter! But I am planning to spend Christmas snuggling up to my wonderful grandsons, all of them!Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-32121631831035879342010-10-05T09:34:00.002-05:002010-10-05T09:45:00.464-05:00Lifechanging EventsAugust added Samuel Scott Sullivan to our lives. Little Sam arrived at 9 lbs 11 oz, and is absolutely beautiful! He enjoyed sleeping on my chest a number of times, which his Nonna enjoys even more than Sam does! Lawyer Girl and the Virology Professor are great parents, and all is well in Austin.<br /><br />While I was in Austin, Tex stayed in respite care for 4 days. When he came home, he developed another urinary tract infection, which ultimately took him Home on September 22nd. His death brought great sadness and a tremendous appreciation for the ways this kind and loving man touched the lives of those around him. I was privileged to be holding him as he gently left this world, and for that, I am profoundly grateful. I honestly feel that "he's only going over Jordan, he's only going over home" as the song says. Life is and forever will be greatly changed.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-49445105383695280242010-08-19T18:01:00.003-05:002010-08-19T18:08:34.092-05:00Waiting and Waiting for Baby S.I am having a hard time waiting for my daughter's baby to come. It has brought up memories of my labor and delivery of my two children, both of which were pretty positive experiences. Part of it is that I know what she is facing and she does not. It will be unlike anything she has ever done before, something where your intellect does not get to be in charge, where your body takes over, and you work HARD. Lawyer Girl is in very good physical shape, she has exercised this whole pregnancy, and the baby seems to be in very good shape. Nevertheless, I am having a tough time relaxing and going with the flow, wanting it to be over. She is much more relaxed about it than I am.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-14837441932061235042010-08-14T16:33:00.003-05:002010-08-14T16:39:30.744-05:00Waiting for the newest creationAny day now we will get to meet the newest little creation of Lawyer Girl and the Mad Scientist. Is he going to be known as the Nematode Brief or the Microvirus Lawsuit? He will certainly make a major splash in the Gr-Su pond! All is ready for him now, lovely nursery, excited parents and grandparents... Any time little guy!Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-49938965247087261562010-07-16T09:32:00.002-05:002010-07-16T09:43:16.113-05:00Midsummer DreamMy neighbor reminded me yesterday that summer is half over, and school will start in six weeks. Where has the time gone? I have done so very little in the way of accomplishments but a great deal of resting, relaxing, and napping. Mornings are my favorite time of day. We have coffee out on the deck nearly every morning, visiting and watching the birds. I kept buying plants and flowers until I found some that I could not kill, so the backyard is pretty and fragrant. My dear friend in the neighborhood often stops by after walking her dog. Sometimes Tex is up with us, and sometimes not. His health is on an upswing right now so we are able to enjoy the mornings together. Life is sweet in the mornings. I am learning to look for and accept the things of beauty that the Lord has provided.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-61120501708668980622010-06-11T09:39:00.002-05:002010-06-11T09:42:36.620-05:00Post retirementI haven't blogged in a long time, and I am not sure why. So much going on, with the end of school and the actual fact of my retirement. It has been an emotional time, even though I know this is the right thing to do. Mornings we sit out on the deck and have coffee, watching the birds. Sometimes with Fred and sometimes with my neighbor Sherry. I have had a lot of errands to run, and seem to have settled in for a quick nap while Fred sleeps in the afternoon. I try to read but instead, I match his breathing and go to sleep.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-80781478298799738202010-05-08T10:33:00.002-05:002010-05-08T10:50:27.659-05:00End of the Year and the End of a CareerOne of the things I wanted to get done before I retired was to get the house in good repair. Even though I am retiring a year earlier than I had planned, I am actually getting it all done. My fabulous contractor Jody has put in 10 new windows in the back room overlooking the pool, along with moving the door around to the north side of the back yard. This gives us a gorgeous view of the pool and plants. We will also have a gated deck so that the little grandchildren can actually play outside. I never thought that I would live in such a beautiful house as this is turning out to be!<br /><br />I have taught my last class; all that is left is to balance the grades, write the annual report, and pack my things and bring them home. Closets have been cleaned out, lots of stuff given to the church garage sale, and even the office has been improved some (I have to have a mess somewhere or it won't feel like home.) <br /><br />The students and faculty gave me such a tribute last Friday night at the BSSW Student Banquet that I am still enjoying the glow from it. I feel that at the apex of my career I was respected, loved, and going to be missed. What a great way to leave! One of the things I have always believed is to leave while people still want you to stay.<br /><br />Here is what was written on the plaque they presented to me:<br /><br />ANNA RAE ROZELL<br />For impeccable service and dedication to the social work field.<br />You were a mentor, an advocate, and you motivated us to succeed.<br />You made a difference in our lives.<br />The BSW students of UNT.<br /><br />Then each one of the students wrote an individual note as well.<br />Who could want to accomplish any more than this?Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-57497025277987711842010-04-11T11:59:00.002-05:002010-04-11T13:01:07.449-05:00April ThoughtsMy flowers are abundant this spring--lots of pansies, daffodils, coreopsis, batflowers, and the first iris bloomed yesterday, the Megan Elizabeth iris! I am actually enjoying some of the work I have done in the flower beds!<br /><br />I seem to be a somewhat different person right now. Fred came home about 10 days ago; far from feeling trapped in the house with him, I am enjoying taking care of him at times. He cannot walk, he can hardly make transfers, I often have to feed him because of the severe tremors, and he can't be left alone. But I find myself strangely peaceful about it all. It is wonderful to have him to kiss and cuddle. Of course, there are moments when I don't know what to do and feel panic, but mostly, I am quite content staying in the house with him. Part of this is because of the wonderful support system we have, with hospice nurse and aides, Janine is back from Kind Companions, friends coming by to visit etc. If you had asked me even a year ago if I could care for him when he is bedridden, I would have said "no." How often I forget that God gives us the grace to deal with each day as it comes.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-10559404365011656562010-03-18T09:17:00.003-05:002010-03-18T09:28:15.415-05:00An Emotional SpringIt is Spring here in Texas, trees blooming with white pear blossoms everywhere, daffodils coming up etc. And Tex is still in the hospital, having spent 10 days at home since the middle of November. Lots of UTI's which can no longer be prevented, according to the urologist. He wants to come home; I want him home. After being on the 24 hour care circuit for 4 UTI's in 4 months, I think we can care for him as well at home. The emotional issue is whether or not to initiate hospice care. I believe that it is time. Bird Girl is leery that her father will not get the care he needs to fight the UTI's agressively. It will take a combination of hospice and home health care to do that, now that he only responds to IV antibiotics. I think that we can do this, and that he needs to be home. Maybe he can pull off another miracle; he has done this before. Maybe our time together is running out. Regardless, we want to spend it together. Please keep Tex, me, and our whole family in your prayers.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-38378789711569147462010-02-27T16:22:00.003-06:002010-02-27T16:30:16.952-06:00Year 21Tex has been back home for a few days now so we are slowly laying down some new routines. He is in a wheelchair now so getting around is a bit more cumbersome. The lightweight folding chair is a godsend! It is soooo good to have him home!<br />It has been good to have the part-time caregiver back to help out and to teach me some easier ways to do things. He wants to try going to church tomorrow; keep your fingers crossed for us.<br /><br />We had a fabulous 20th wedding anniversary party, just two weeks ago! Lots of family and a few dear friends came to celebrate with us. The food was delicious and the company was even better. <br /><br />All is well on the home front.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-56460950673742899512010-02-11T18:09:00.002-06:002010-02-11T18:19:54.262-06:00Walking in a Winter Wonderland!Well, chickadees, it has been snowing and snowing and snowing here at the R & R Ranch. Here in the Lone Star State, we get an occasional inch or two of snow, which causes everyone to get all excited, schools to close, and we all have a SNOW Day. Now, I have lived in cold country and I know what real blizzards are like, but we are having a blizzard here! So far, between 7 and 9 inches. And it will ice over tonight! Yipes! What that really means is that I will not get to go to GrandFriends Day at the Little Cowpoke's school. Darn!<br /><br />Other news: Tex and I have been married for 20 years, as of yesterday. We are going to have a luncheon for family and a very few friends on Saturday. (Weather should permit!) Being married to Tex has been remarkably easy, all things considered. A few life situations have been thrown at us, but we are more in love than ever. That boy has a capacity for love that is absolutely phenomenol. I have truly learned about God's love from watching Tex.<br /><br />His health seems to have stabilized although there continue to be UTI's. So, we are planning to have him come home after the DOK retreat. Hooray! We know his health is fragile but God has brought us this far, and there have been some very good years while his body continues to do its Parkonsonism thing. We have been truly blessed!Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-86147997814709825792010-01-20T08:29:00.003-06:002010-01-20T08:53:33.711-06:00Mid-January Goings-OnThe Ranch house is getting knee-deep in dust again as the workmen gut the second bathroom! But I will love having my walk-in shower and vanity area updated. I picked out the tile yesterday, spending a fortune at the local Lowe's. Tex's bathroom is completely done, complete with matching towels, etc. Unfortunately, the vanity is piled high with both Tex's and my bathroom gear on the top. <br /><br />Tex himself is making slow progress, but progress nonetheless. With the help of a wheelchair van, I was able to bring him home for a few hours on the weekend. It wasn't easy, but it was doable. Why was I so exhausted afterward? I am going over to the Rehab center to work with him on getting in and out of our car, so I don't have to spend $$ on a van next time.<br /><br />I am loving having more time at home to get things done, even things like yardwork (eek!) and laundry etc. I guess my Inner Housekeeper is coming out. (Honest, no one has ever even seen a glimpse of her before. Not in my whole life.)<br /><br />When I was feeling really blue on Monday, I piled into my trusty Honda and took a trip to East Dallas to have lunch with my son Bud and the two Little Cowpokes. It did my spirits and my heart a world of good just to be with them for a couple of hours. The 6 year old Cowpoke gives the best-est hugs and just grinned when he saw me come in. The Baby Cowpoke smiled, gummed his finger food, and showed off his new self-feeding skills. They are such wonderful, wonderful kids. Not that this Nonna is prejudiced but I am simply reporting the facts.<br /><br />Dryheat Dan called me last night to tell me that his Mother-in-law Kathleen had died yesterday, at age 83. Evidently it was a very peaceful death. I have had such love for her ever since she helped my mother with my dad's death. I'm glad that I got to visit with her a few months ago. She was a beautiful and gracious lady, who was cheerful, loving all those around her, even as she slid quietly into senility. May Light shine upon her, and all those who loved her. My sister-in-law Irish Ani took care of her for the last few years of her life, until she simply required 24 hour care. I am reminded once again what good people are in my family. Please pray for the soul of Kathleen, and comfort in grief for Ani and Dan.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-71799245736474588132010-01-07T12:23:00.002-06:002010-01-07T12:32:27.000-06:00New Year/New LifeWell, it's official. I am going to be teaching one class this semester while I exhaust my leave balances and work one quarter time! Hurrah! Hurrah! At the end of May, I will officially retire from UNT. I actually decided to retire at the end of January and adjunct one class, but this arrangement works out better for us financially as well as having the advantage of keeping things clean with the Teacher's Retirement System which says I cannot work or volunteer in any capacity for 30 days after retiring. It will give me more time to be with Tex as well as be much less hectic than the last 60 days. <br /><br />Also on a happy note, I had dinner with my dear friends from the Pastoral Care group which has been more or less dissolved by our new Deacon. We decided that we would meet quarterly as a group since we have become so close over the past years. I absolutely love these ladies and have missed getting together with them as a group over the fall.<br /><br />My house is covered in dust and a bit of mess as the contractors are working on my new bathrooms, one of which is being widened for Tex and one of which is being turned into a lovely shower for me. It should all be back to normal in a couple of weeks. <br /><br />Well, I need to go see Tex at his Hacienda Por Rehab on this bitterly cold day, one for the record books. Fortunately, very little ice came with this Arctic Blast.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-75890919811795400362009-12-19T07:02:00.002-06:002009-12-19T07:10:27.352-06:00Somber AdventThis entire advent season has been a hard road, with Tex being in three hospitals, one rehab center, and he will most likely be going to a skilled nursing facility this week before Christmas. His level of alertness is up and down and all around - after two absolutely clear days he was totally confused for the last two. Sometimes I can handle it all, and sometimes I can't. My Dearly Beloved Cousin called this week and gave me a wonderful gift of Words and Tears. Now, I can sometimes cry when I realize that he is so very ill. I had nursed a secret hope that he might be strong enough to come home for the day on Christmas, but I doubt that can happen now. All I can really say is, "Lord, be mericiful."<br /><br />This is A Hard Season for so many people I know. But the donkey trudges on to Bethlehem, and Christ will be born on Christmas Eve. Hallelujah!Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-32346730483243730152009-12-09T08:54:00.004-06:002009-12-09T09:03:22.159-06:00home or Home? Or, maybe, someplace else.After I spent timelooking into Rehabs & skilled nursing facilities, it looks like Tex will be going to a Long Term Acute Care facility for a couple more weeks of IV antibiotic therapy. Hopefully, they can also build up his ability to swallow and take in enough liquids by mouth. Then maybe to a rehab facility where they can build up his muscles (and level of alertness) to where he can come home? I really have to face the fact that I don't know what is going to happen, and leave him in the Hands of God. I really don't like that! I want to be in charge! My prayer has been to "heal him, Lord, so he can come home - or - just take him Home. None of this long-term care stuff!" Sometimes God says, "my time is not your time." I'm not too crazy about that answer but it seems to be what I am seeing take place.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-13833312522490746082009-12-05T14:03:00.003-06:002009-12-05T14:16:29.979-06:00Advent- the time of comingAdvent is the time of "coming." I am now a little bit hopeful that Fred will get back from his 2nd hospitalization with this round of illness (in Lewisville Med Center this time), and will "come" back to rehab for a period of strengthening, and will "come home" in time for Christmas. He is responding in his more usual way to the antibiotics and hydration that he is receiving this time after his kidneys began to shut down in rehab. I think that he needed this extra round in the hospital to give him a chance to beat down this particular infection. I truly have been much more calm since he went into the hospital on Wednesday. He is "coming back to himself" instead of having his mind wander in the ozone constantly. He can even crack a few jokes again! Thank you for all your prayers.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-56035066255486508212009-11-27T14:45:00.000-06:002009-11-27T14:46:08.092-06:00Fred is a little bit better today, thanks be to God!Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-22695671647474572642009-11-27T07:28:00.002-06:002009-11-27T07:38:38.836-06:00Thanksgiving 2009What a different Thanksgiving! Woke up and gave thanks for many things, from the blessings of electricity to taking an early morning walk with my dear Neighbor Friend. Then went to the Rehab Center to be with Tex, who is worse than I have ever seen him. I fought tears. Then Tex's beautiful daughter Bird Girl and her husband came. Bird G. is so wonderful with her Daddy that I was touched. Also very thankful that she had invited me to share in her sister-in-law's Thanksgiving dinner. Saw Tex again last night and think that we may have to move him to a hospital. Big quandry for me is whether to move him to a neighborhood suburban hospital where his doctors know him and I can get to it, or to a downtown hospital which has more resources but where they do not know him and is very hard for me to get to. Please, God, help me to make the right decision. I love Tex so much but he is suffering so very much. Lord have mercy on Tex and alleviate his suffering.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-29090354683822510612009-11-04T15:18:00.003-06:002009-11-04T15:27:18.598-06:00Adios, mi CompadreIt seems like a long time since I have updated this blog. Once we got back from the cruise, it took over a week to get through the profound fatigue that I had absorbed from the trip. It was a great trip, nice to know that we can travel that way, but I really need an extra person along so that I can get away for a few minutes.<br /><br />Then it seemed that we were into the world where we lost our Compadre, the father of the Beautiful Daughter-in-law. He was diagnosed two months ago with liver cancer, had surgery which failed, then went into hospice, and died this Monday. Yesterday, I went down to the Spanish-speaking rosary which was held for him. It was a beautiful service, very moving, which from my poor translation, seemed to be asking Mary, the Mother of Jesus, to care for her son JP. Let Light Perpetual shine upon him.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1598942880528859257.post-30087486852008674462009-10-19T10:53:00.002-05:002009-10-19T10:56:31.773-05:00Back from the CruiseTex and I had a great time on our cruise out of Galveston. Spent lots of great together time on the ship since he did not trust his scooter skills on the mainland. (He drives his scooter just like he drives a car, only the crashes are not deadly!) We are very tired but were delighted to find that he can travel this way. Lots of love to all.Socialworkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14128437915575970063noreply@blogger.com1